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By Andrew Costa
Citizen Staff
February 2003
Shawnigan Lake resident Adrienne
Carter has done a lot of traveling
during the last four years.
Kosovo, Kashmir and Sri Lanka
- not typical travel spots for
most
Canadians but the destinations
of choice for Carter, a mental
health counsellor who has donated
much of her time to teach trauma
counselling in some the world's
most dangerous places.
Carter, who works at the Child
and Youth Mental Health Centre
in Victoria, decided in 1999
that she wanted to help those
grieving
from the ethnic wars and NATO
bombing in Yugoslavia. "It was hard to
know how to help but then I found
Medecins Sans Frontieres (Doctors
Without Borders) and they had recently
begun a mental health program," she
said. "I was accepted and placed
in a (small town in Kosovo called)
Prizren."
Carter, who obtained a three-month
leave of absence from her job,
was part of a small team that
went to Prizren which included
one other
mental health specialist. They
arrived just as ethnic Albanian
residents were returning home by
foot from refugee camps in Macedonia.
"When the refugees were returning
what they found was total chaos," she
said. "The town wasn't completely
destroyed but it had been taken
over by the army."
In Prizren, Carter helped select
a group of doctors, nurses, social
workers and school counsellors
to train in trauma therapy.
"All of them were traumatized themselves
and part of their training program
was looking at their own trauma," she
said. "We did a lot of role playing
to learn to deal with trauma."
During the role-playing exercises
one "beautiful young nurse" took
up the role of a mother who's
husband had fled to the mountains
and whose
father was executed in front
of her and her six children.
"She took the children and walked
for four days towards the Albanian
refugee camps with no food," she
said. "She encountered wounded
people all over the place but
couldn't help because she had
to take care
of her six children."
Carter said that as the nurse's
story unfolded the group began
to understand that she wasn't role
playing. She was telling the story
of her own life.
"We realized she needed a lot more
counselling of her own," she said.
Another student of Carter's was
a doctor who saw things so horrible
he fell into a bitter depression
and often had thoughts of suicide. "The
training program gave him a reason
to live," she said. "It gave
him a renewed sense of purpose."
After three months in Prizren Carter
returned to her Shawnigan home
and Victoria job, but she was hooked.
She returned to Kosovo for another
month in 2000 and then took another
leave of absence in 2001 to teach
trauma counselling in Kashmir,
a disputed mountainous area on
the northern border of India and
Pakistan.
"It's a 19- or 20-year war and
it's an all-out battle," she said. "We
had to do counselling in the
middle of grenade attacks."
Carter said the largest number
of her students in the city of
Srinigar were Muslims but some
Sikhs and Ba'hais also took part
in the training. "Normally they
don't get along but they were all
together in the training program," Carter
said. "I'm a Baha'i myself but
it didn't cause any difficulty
and I learned so much about (the
Muslim and Sikh) way of thinking
and worshiping."
Dealing with sexual abuse was a
large part of the trauma training
in Kashmir, which Muslim men and
women insisted on receiving separately
from each other, she said.
"I was in a room with about 15
devout Muslim men and I just finished
a lecture on various forms of sexual
abuse and I had to give it without
looking them in the eye," Carter
said. "There was deep silence
for a while, then one man started
talking
about being taken when he was
a boy and how everything I talked
about had happened to him. Probably
about half of the men shared
similar
stories. It was very powerful
and my translator was overcome
with
emotions and had to leave the
room several times."
In 2002, Carter renewed her efforts
with a three-month stint helping
refugees in war-torn Sri Lanka.
The island nation off the coast
of India was also embroiled in
a decades-old civil war between
minority Hindu Tamil rebels and
the majority Buddhist Sinhalese
army.
"There were thousands of displaced
people with horrendous living conditions
in the refugee camps," Carter said. "The
family structure had completely
broken down. It was an incredibly
difficult situation. Sixty-four
thousand people have been killed
in the most horrendous way."
One problem Carter faced in Sri
Lanka was the tremendous grief
felt by parents whose children
were abducted and forced to serve
in the army. "They were taken away
as young as 10 years old and many
parents never saw them again," she
said.
Although peace talks are now ongoing
in Sri Lanka and the conflict in
Kosovo appears to have settled
down, Carter still feels the calling
and hopes to embark on another
volunteer mission with Doctors
Without Borders sometime soon.
"Unfortunately our world has so
many hot spots where mental health
programs are going into, places
like Sierra Leone and Sudan," she
said. "The question is whether
I will be allowed to take a leave
of absence again with the changes
in the Ministry (of Children
and Family Development)."
Carter's proud of what she was
able to accomplish in all three
locations and hopes she's able
to help other people in war-ravaged
nations deal with trauma.
"It was a large amount we were
able to do in a very short time
and the stories I heard in all
three places I worked would blow
your mind," she said. "They were
like the concentration camps
in Europe during the Second World
War."

Doctors Without Borders is an independent,
privately funded, neutral volunteer
organization that offers medical
assistance in areas suffering from
violent conflict, disease and natural
disasters. For more information,
visit the organization's web site
at www.msf.ca or
in Vancouver at (604) 743-0673.
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